Closure

A letter I sent to W on this night. Our attempt at closure was not successful.

W,

You sent me an email tonight asking if I thought I had closure.
It’s pretty obvious to me that we do not have closure yet, at least not a healthy one.
Closure means ending on a positive note.
Closure means we have achieved what we have both expressed a desire for – that we have become friends.
Closure does not mean simply shutting down communication, or at least not doing so in a negative way.
I don’t like having enemies, and I don’t like feeling that we are on bad terms.
I never ended on bad terms with ANY of me exes, except for Vitamin C, and a girl I dated when I was 16. And I don’t intent to be on bad terms with you.
I extend the olive branch to you once again.


Love Always,
E

P.S. After I wrote the above letter, I did a Google search for the words “relationship” and “closure”. This was the top entry:
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/closure.asp
I agree with it.